back after a long hiatus!!!

hello ..to who ever is reading this

I actually believed that I was the rudest, meanest and most inconsiderate person in the world. My friends , always supportive of me , dint support me on this. On the contrary they thot I was sweet and caring. I believed their opinion was biased. And I always made an effort not to hurt anyone , be polite and all that . However, I still cudnt stop myself.

But after a few years a si began meeting new people ....more n more new people .......it made see that there are people who are miles ahead of me in terms of being those horrible things I said above!!!! What can I say .....I was shocked ....well ....In a way I was happy that there are people worse than me ......so I am actually good if not better .......ok lets like quantify this issue so that veeryone has a better understanding. if zero is taken as refernece and anything below zero is considered rude ( the more negtaive u are the more rude or mean etc it is) and vice versa.

I was like just -1 and I thot i was horrible ..........but guess what ...there are people who are -20, -30 and -50. I implore these people to get their act together and start changing their behaviour, which brings us to why poeple are rude( to change sthg we shud know what is its cause ...)

Okay , we are generally rude to people when
(1) when we dont like the person
(2) when we dont like sthg the person says
(3) when u are just too arrogant to be polite

People .....if u dont like the person ......dont talk to them ....or if it is really necessary ..just talk socially and shut up!!!

and when u dont like sthg the other person says ........just say so ...voice ur opinion .....and there is one exception here .......if they are repeatedly being rude ...then thers no reason to hold back.....give them what they deserve ......

and to people who are too arrogant to be polite .......they say what goes around comes around .....so better be careful .......no one wnats to be treated badly .......its never too late .....so start being good and hopefully ......no one will treat U badly .....

Well I wrote this blog just to vent out my frustration ............no one has to actually follow what I said .........but honestly It never hurts to be good .......

okay